Read the Signs, For Him. They really are clear!
In this post we take a little look in the ‘kitchen’ – how can the guy use the signs to his advantage? Repair the situation; avoid the goodbye note being read out loud! And avoid the cold shoulder and Look that can kill!
For him, read the signs!
Learn to preempt – think about what she would like or expect! Try to catch her unawares!
That means, sometimes be romantically surprising.
For example:
If you are not sure of the dress code, then discretely ask before you get dressed. It shows you care about your appearance.
When you are not sure of the date of your first meeting, then you need to remember some other important element- such as the place, or the first kiss, or the walk home or breakfast in bed you brought her the following morning! (Getting the message…..)
When you hear something Italian is being cooked for the meal for two at home, then stick to a simple nice bottle of Prosecco, this will always go down well, as it starts the night with a fizz! It shows a continental spirit!
When you are not sure what is a ‘chickpea’ (they also come in cans), but first go to the ‘foreign foods’ corner shop and ask!
Or take ‘a punt’ and buy a few variations of dried beans, lentils or what ever you find. It will at least show that you tried and you will also have something for another occasion. It shows good anticipation.
Take her Father a dark drink, Rum, Whiskey, French red wine, especially something old. It shows maturity and that you value his opinion. (Especially after he has had a few)! ‘Yes, of course you can borrow the vintage car for the weekend.’
You don’t have to buy the first round in a bar, but make sure that you don’t get the last, be active in the delivery of happy making liquids!
Cross your legs before the bill arrives and hold on until you have had a chance to chip in! No one loves a Cheapskate- and a ‘Flash Harry’ will always leave broke, and with a headache!
Smell out the signs of discontent!!
Here the expensive flowers will go a long way to the repairs of a dented emotional armor.
Get there before the good-bye note hits you!! Clean up, do something, impress her, make an effort!
The signs are clear, be on the look out for them, in fact just make sure you react quickly, start now, as you have probably already missed a couple of them!!