Always the same type of guy.
If you are a ‘Blue man’, a ‘Khaki green man’ or a ‘Grey man, the truth is simple. You will always be this type of guy.
“I like simple chic. Grey and white are always cool.”
Shades of these colours will add to your wardrobe perfectly resulting in fresh new and stylishly co-ordinated outfits as always.
But complete changes will bring ultimate male confusion.
‘Arrrrgh a red shirt- what do I do with this????’
(Outwardly he has to respond-
“Thanks Darling I really love it. Very thoughtful of You……..!”)
Message: never change a winning horse.
Keep it simple and derivative of the original.
Once you have found something that works- nurture it and develop it.
Never look to change it.
He likes it that way and yes, it is similar to something he has before.
None of his friends will realize nor will they care, as long as he still looks and feels good.
A new yellow T shirt may have great feminine appeal, and be very striking to (‘Tonalités de Femmes’- You) your girlfriends, but they will bring blushes to him, (‘Tonalites d’un Homme’ -Us) as suddenly there are un-solicited attention which will definitely lead to uncomfortable pillow talk later that night.!
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Is this a perfect match? How would she relate to him?
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Laters! TdH.
Your blog was good – fantastic choice of poem!
That said, I agree that the signs have to be clear – frankly at this age we may as well be straight. I tried to match make a friend with a male friend of mine recently and whilst I knew that they had both clicked and enjoyed each other’s conversation – when I mentioned to the male friend that “x likes you” – (in fact he had 2 admirers post this party) he was flattered but after some careful thought (a day) he decided that he would not progress with either women as he didn’t feel any chemistry. I have to say that I admire him for that – as I recall that’s what I hung out to wait for – that spark – and 16 years after meeting Xander, it has been worth it. The highs and the lows – of which there have been both in plenty!